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Over the past few
weeks, the little boys on my street have been perfecting their daredevil bike
tricks—it is amazing what kids can do with a bicycle, a wooden ramp, and a
whole lot of energy!
Before I set off this
evening for a twilight bike ride, I stopped in our cul-de-sac to adjust my
seat. One of the boys, who was lapping around for another go at the ramp, rode
by and eagerly inquired, “Are you going to jump the ramp?”
“No,” I answered,
smiling. “I’m not quite brave enough to try it. I’ll leave that to you guys!” (I
probably should have said “crazy” instead of
“brave,” since I saw firsthand how a big bike handled the ramp when one
of my 12-year-olds tackled it a few days ago—very differently from the little
kid bikes!) Then I set off on my ride, contemplating our little exchange.
I have jumped lots of
figurative “ramps” in my life. The majority of those have not been easy or
comfortable, but they have been
rewarding and worth the effort involved. Moving to a new state (which my
husband and I have done three times since we were married), embarking on my adventures
in teaching, leaving teaching to become a stay-at-home mom to twins—each
of these were jumping off points and hurtled me through life until I landed
somehow on my feet, taking a running leap into a brand new phase of life.
I’ve jumped some “ramps”
in my writing life, as well; joining writers’ communities in Texas and South
Carolina, signing with (and losing) an agent, querying publishers and agents, starting
a blog, diving into the sea that is Twitter, writing stories and poems and
books, and simply putting myself “out there” have all been leaps that propelled
me forward and continue to be integral in motivating, challenging, and encouraging
me to keep working toward my goals, despite the obstacles that (often!) pop up
along the way. And I know this will continue as long as I keep on riding down
this road. But that is all part of the adventure, right? ☺
What are the “ramps”
you’ve jumped or are jumping in your writing career? If you have any great
advice on handling writerly hurtles, please share in the comments below. Have a
great week, and Happy Writing!
OK, so this has nothing whatsoever to do with writing, but I couldn't resist sharing this pic of the baby bunny I found hanging out in my front yard when I finished my bike ride tonight. Luckily, he hasn't found the garden in the back yard (yet)!
I like the ramp metaphor, Becky -- something that lifts you up and pushes you forward, with a frisson of fear because you don't know exactly what will happen next. It reminds me a little of Ray Bradbury's "Go to the edge of the cliff and jump off. Build your wings on the way down."
ReplyDeleteCute baby bunny!
I love your Ray Bradbury quote, Tabatha! I had not heard that one. It is definitely one I will hold on to. = )
ReplyDeleteChanges... might as well embrace them, as they are certain to happen. Seems you have leaped a-plenty and managed to land and keep rolling with grace.
ReplyDeleteYou are right about changes, Mirka--we might as well embrace them. I am slowly learning to live by this!
DeleteDear Becky,
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome for the Liebster Award. I'm glad you liked it. You definitely deserve it. You are welcome for my support of your blog. Your blog posts are entertaining and inspiring. I think many of us have jumped off a ramp or two in our lives. The ramp is like the question, "Are we going to make it to our goal?"
I like the attitude of the boys in your neighborhood. When we see that others make it, it empowers us to believe we can make it, too.
Love, Joan
Thank you so much, Joan!
DeleteLovely post! Keep the faith and keep jumping ... you will catch the air and fly. It's pretty exhilarating, isn't it? Even when I've fallen, it's been worth it.
ReplyDeleteYes! ALWAYS worth it!
DeleteBecky,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on the awards. I was expecting you to jump the ramp in celebration! Maybe tomorrow~
Thank you, Linda! That ramp is still out there...so who knows?
DeleteI love rabbits! We have tons in our neighborhood and we saw four playing together when we were on a walk the other day. So cute! Though I might feel different if I had a garden to protect. =) My hurdles have just been keeping going when you don't feel like it's ever going to happen. But it will! If I don't stop, and keep trying, I'll get there someday.
ReplyDeleteI am right there with you, Leandra! We have to "just keep swimming," as Dory so eloquently puts it!
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